Did it ever occur to you that this post is really about the following:
- PSR posters always talk about personal responsibility, and judge people harshly for not being "personally responsible" and not "working hard enough." Some, but not all these people, are conservatives, constantly dredging up tropes about groups of people they find irresponsible.
- Most of these same posters did not "pull themselves up the bootstraps" and apply or get admitted to CHYMPS programs, when the poorest of poor people can access info about these programs get full financial aid if admitted. Poor unconnected people get admitted to top programs all the time. This is a form of attainable privilege.
- You, yourself, dear American individualist personally responsible white man, did not pull yourselves up by your bootstraps. And now you are complaining, against every group imaginable, about your plight. Just like the minorities that you look down on and impugn constantly here.
Maybe you can stop thinking and posting the personal responsibility tropes you constantly discuss here.
Other human beings just like you have their own issues that prevent them from "pulling themselves up by the bootstraps." Sometimes they happen in college, sometimes in grad school, sometimes in the midst of their careers. I will sympathize with you, if you start sympathizing with other people unlike yourself.
In other words, this post isn't really about CHYMPS admissions at all, although there is some good advice about how to manage the admissions process and grad school interspersed in the comments.