Got an offer, and I accepted. I don't have tenure yet (up this year, but only thing left is a Board of Regents formality signature). My new institution is going to give me tenure (part of the initial agreement, and confirmed after seeing Dean and Provosts recommendations).
I've been holding out on sharing this news to see if I could finish the T&P process at my current institution and officially land tenure there before departing for my new position in FL23.
Was going to wait for the end of the semester, but now, my chair (who is being weirdly dickish to me), is calling me in for a meeting tomorrow to bitch at me over something insanely trivial. The whole thing is the most wildly unprofessional thing that has happened to me since I started at the university... and that is saying a lot.
Should I just tell him I'm done tomorrow and end the conversation/drama before it starts? Should I wait to see if he says something ridiculous to decide? Do I use it to deescalate? Or... do I decide to hold off telling him if he really pisses me off to insure maximum headaches when I do leave, and go out in a blaze of glory.
For the record, my institution is a regional R2 teetering on R3, full of nepotism, deadwood, and with administrators that have zero respect or understanding for real research. It is in the bottom 10% of institutions one would ever want to work for.